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My Advice
As one of the men out here that feels over 5 is promiscuous, I would turn your offer down. At 41 I have had exactly 5 sexual partners, and it would be 1 if I could help it. Here is the key, it isn't really about a number, it is about intent. Every one of my partners were long term relationships. The shortest 2 years, the longest 13. If a woman has 10 partners, and each one was part of a committed relationship, I don't see it as an issue. If she has 5 and most/all were casual hookups and whatnot, I would walk away. I feel that promiscuous behavor is unnacceptable, for women and men. You can see I practice what I preach.
Grace July 27, 2011 at 4:47 pm Reply
marrie July 27, 2011 at 7:52 pm Reply Hello Grace! Welcome to DIP! It is the "double standard" that kills me more than the rules that society sets! If a woman uses sex to fill some emotional gap or to get self worth that is a problem, no argument from me! However, if a woman chooses to have consensual sex with an adult and is using safe practices..why should she be judged with a different standard? I guess what I'm saying is what I told Alex: Practice what you preach! How many of the men who answered that survey have only had 5 sexual partners? I find that hard to believe!